Going to Try to Get State Help

I'm going to try and go through the state again to see if I can get help. I tried a few years ago but they denied it because he wasn't beating me. I did mention the pot smoking and the swearing/emotional abuse but they didn't care. I'll just try again and see what happens.

It's Been Quiet the Last Few Days

No word from him except one call where he thought I had called him. It's been nice but since he likes to come inside without permission and go through open windows or unlocked doors I always get a little nervous. I hate living like that. In the summer I can't let the fresh air in because he will come over and if I don't answer the door he tries to crawl in through the window. Sad, isn't it?

Do not forget to vote in the poll of the week

This week's topic is how many months behind is he on his court ordered child support? Scroll down to vote.

If I can think of something to put in future polls then I will continue to add a weekly poll.

It Has Been Proven - He Continued the Buying Present Saga in the Car

One of the kids told me that he point blank told them I was hiding presents that his mother sent the kids from his view. Why would I do something like that? I want my children to be happy!

I've been accused of hiding presents

Wow, just wow. It's something new daily. Not only were my dinner plans messed up for Christmas (I will not fight over them in front of the kids) but I was accused by my ex for hiding presents that my in-laws are sending. He stood outside my door and yelled profanities at me that I was hiding the presents so he would have nothing to open for them. HUH? I want my children to be happy! Why would I do that? He also said it in front of them in the car I was told. UGH.

No, the presents haven't arrived yet. Mail is slow here. I hope they will be here tomorrow so the kids can call their grandparents and thank them and then go shopping for what they were hoping to get and didn't. :)

We Got Part of Christmas Day Together

My kids had mentioned briefly that he wanted to go to the movies the next day, but of course he says nothing to me. So, the next day while I'm making lunch he stops by without calling and demands the kids go to the movies and they get ready and go. I didn't fight it. I don't want to start the swearing in front of the kids.

Merry Christmas

I just wanted to say Merry Christmas everyone. I didn't know until about 2 hours ago where the kids would be for Christmas Eve because he would never call to tell me if he was going to be there. So when he shows up today, unannounced as usual, he demands to them they go with him to lunch and a movie and starts yelling at me for really no reason other than I might ruin his plans again and that the house is messy so I better beware.

So the kids and I will have Christmas Eve and Christmas Day together. :)

I am getting a divorce

Why am I getting a divorce? Because my ex likes to milk people for money and one of those "people" is me. I'm tired of it. I put up with so many years of not getting any financial help with the bills or kids and so much that I do not have any savings to even hire an attorney and I really need an attorney with this one. Oh just come on my journey with me if you like.

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